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Some used the term paradox of choice; others referred to option paralysis (a term popularized by Black Mirror); still others invoked continues to attract users, in part because many people consider apps less stressful than the alternatives.Lisa Wade suspects that graduates of high-school or college hookup culture may welcome the fact that online dating takes some of the ambiguity out of pairing up (We’ve each opted in; I’m at least a little bit interested in you).They say yes, yes, yes to every woman.”Stories from other app users bear out the idea of apps as diversions rather than matchmakers.“Getting right-swiped is a good ego boost even if I have no intention of meeting someone,” one man told me.As Iris, who’s 33, told me bitterly, “They’ve gamified interaction.

For one thing, lots of people appear to be using them as a diversion, with limited expectations of meeting up in person.If hookups are your thing, Grindr and Tinder offer the prospect of casual sex within the hour.The phrase If something exists, there is porn of it used to be a clever internet meme; now it’s a truism.Dance clubs and dive bars may have worked in the '90s, but now, even if you’re out, your phone is a much easier way to find someone to "watch Netflix and chill" with (especially someone you won’t regret tomorrow). The share of Americans who say sex between unmarried adults is “not wrong at all” is at an all-time high. Most women can—at last—get birth control for free, and the morning-after pill without a prescription.

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