Passive men dating

Game theory suggests a tic for tac or a tic for 2 tacs (one off 2nd chance) is the optimal strategy for dealing with people. It doesn't matter what his past relationships have been like it's up to you to set standards from the start.You're doing all the work, you need him to put effort in aswell otherwise how could you possibly know he cares lol you could be any girl as far as he's concerned As others have stated, I wouldn't have a "I need more communication" talk with's too early.If only one party is doing all the work, it's so tiring. We do that because we don't want to be bothered. One that is my personal one and a second one I rarely answer.Cathy Meyer is a certified divorce coach, marriage educator, freelance writer, and founding editor of Divorced

After our last date we were texting a few days later and I said something along the lines of "I'm down to keep this thing going if you are :)" and he replied "Of course! I feel like it's too early to be having "I need more communication/effort" talks without me coming off as needy/clingy.

If I tell him I like him, he tells me he likes me too.

If I tell him I had fun, he tells me he had fun too. BUT he never really gives me any unsolicited feedback, and he hasn't suggested a date since the first one.

I don't want to "play games" and just stop initiating stuff and see what happens, but is that my only option here?

Or am I wearing my rose colored glasses and he's actually not that interested?

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