Dating strong successful women
The ones drawn to the “feminine me” are the Alpha Male macho type guys that just don’t do a thing for me. I’m also not attracted to men who have no drive or desire to be successful.My question is why is it so hard for a strong and successful woman to find a strong and successful man?She’s the type of woman you could picture owning her own business in the next five years (or maybe she already owns a few).She’s entirely self-made and sexy as hell – and somehow, she’s interested in , and she wants you to be a part of her awesome life.Balanced Energies; something the “all masculine” man is not capable of being because he’s not done what it takes to be that balanced male.
Too much of one energy does not make for a healthy romantic match.At one time I worked with a love coach who told me that men unless they are feminine energy men lose “respect” (translate attraction) for successful women because successful women put out too much masculine energy.So I’ve been dressing feminine and acting feminine and doing everything they say feminine women should do to attract a man, but I don’t feel like myself and I think men sense it too.But as we all know, most “successful” women put up with a lot to get to where they are, and men who can’t carry their own weight soon or later remind them of the same type of “powerlessness” they (women) lived with for so many years.And for these men, they often find that living with a “successful” woman is no “ready made paradise” because she wants a man who is equally “strong and successful”. Women are still stuck in the “old days” of “all feminine” women and “all masculine” men are finding it harder and harder to find “all masculine” men.