Dating a man with borderline personality
Men with BPD often have numerous relationships that accelerate with a rapid intensity and often end in the same fashion.
Relationships with family and friends are often difficult to maintain as any experience of conflict will often result in him disassociating with the individual in conflict.
Those around him may also be unaware of disorder lurking behind the man.
Others may believe him to be narcissistic, selfish, and cruel instead of realizing that these behavioral traits are a result of BPD.
Many times, a man with BPD may not realize that he has the disorder.
This “splitting,” or dividing, everything into either good or evil will pervade the relationship.
In an effort to correct the “wrongs” you have caused your significant other, you may find yourself being even more emotionally tender and sympathetic.
For once, you may truly feel like someone’s hero or heroine.
When the relationship begins, your significant other with BPD might tell you repeatedly how you are the only person who has completely understood them.