Been dating for a month
You were right to hold off having “the talk.” Far too often, women jump the gun and scare men away.
But you’ve been acting like a girlfriend for six months, so I can understand you want to know if this is going anywhere.
With that out of the way, here’s what you do: You let him know what you’re looking for without making him wrong for not giving you the title.
Find him when he’s in a good mood and seems open to talking.
We’ve been together for about six months (just dating), and I want more. We do everything a boyfriend and girlfriend do—have sex, spend a lot of time together, and we even have keys to each other’s houses.
If you find that your date nights tend to be Sunday through Thursday, and there’s no work schedule driving the choices, you may want to ask some questions.Second, good for you not taking the advice you’ve already received.I mean nothing against your mother or your girlfriends, but their recommendations aren’t the same as I would make. Second, know that you are taking a risk by initiating “the talk.” A man who is relationship ready will have no problems talking about it, but a boy will run. You’ll want to be passionately detached here—say what you need to say, and then detach from any particular outcome.He clearly likes being around you, but making time for quality interaction means that weekend calls are probably few and far between.You may get lots of texts, because those can be sent easily no matter what the situation, but real human interaction is tough to spare.